A lot of people have trouble with aging and some seem to try and comfort themselves by calling themselves young at heart. Now, I know I am not old, but that is not me.
I have never thought of myself as a young at heart. I was always someone who people said was “wise beyond their years” when I was younger and that is something I have always identified with. Aging to me is a good thing. I may not get smarter as I get older (I think intelligence level is generally set since birth), but I hope I get wiser.
It also doesn’t mean I lack a sense of adventure, or think I am too old to do certain things. To me age has little to do with what you can or can’t do or what you are supposed to or not supposed to do. Or really with who you are. Who says a 50 or 60 year old who starts something new or likes something that is generally liked by younger people has to be a young at heart. Can it not just be something they like, regardless of age?
To me a birthday signifies another year of opportunity. Another year to try something new. Another year to learn. Whether about myself or about the world.
So what have I learned (or re-learned) this year?
- To not sell myself short. This is a work in progress, but I have definitely made positive strides. To a lot of people it is probably strange that I have this on a list at all. In some parts of my life this is not something I need work on, but in others it is.
- That just sitting on the sofa is not me (unless it follows a lot of activity!).
- That consistency pays off.
- That my husband’s belief in my abilities may be more accurate than my own.
- That I need to put myself out there more.
- That I have a waist!
I am looking forward to all of the adventures and learning that 31 will bring and hope it is as good as 30 was.